Yup, you read right. 1953. Long before our later mess. But that's another story entirely.
I never heard much about my grandfather's war experience. When I was a kid, he was radically anti-war--the only thing he ever told me about it was that I should never join the army and that he had been there a long time. I remember going to England with him and my grandmother in 1983, meeting in the Dallas airport. There were some young Republicans there in the airport and I remember him almost turning over their table because they had some war-related stuff on it. I don't remember what it was that made him so angry, but it sure impressed on me how strongly he felt about warfare.
I remember asking him when I was about 9 or so whether he had killed anyone in the war...he initially told me "no" and then changed the subject whenever I brought it up again. I remember he had a short sword he said he had gotten from a Japanese officer who had surrendered to him. That was about the sum total of what I heard when I was growing up. I never got a chance to talk with him about it when I became an adult, as he died when I was at the end of college. I never thought about talking to my grandmother about it, and she died just a couple years after.
One of the neatest things that happened to me in the last few years is that my uncle Giles (who is referred to in these letters a lot) came to my house for a visit and brought with him as a surprise my grandfather's letters to my grandmother from the war. It was in a basket with a bunch of stuff I had never seen, including some pictures, his passport, college transcript (I was happy in a sad kind of way that he had done as crappy as I had--even though his grades were not for the same reasons, but because he had had to work his way through without the luxury of student loans and a supportive family), and some other random material.
It was one of the most precious gifts he could have given me.
I've read a bunch of them...they're a great insight into what he went through and what he felt about it. A lot of this kind of stuff is around now, but it's different when it's from your own family. So I decided to transcribe some of it and share it. I hope it's as interesting to you as it is for me.